Last weekend Violet, the Seal and I decided to go on a last minute adventure. We ended up driving north for a few hours to the sweet little town of Bellingham. On our way back we stopped at Larrabee State Park. There was a short wooded trail that led to a small beach. Violet, the Seal and I explored our little desert island of a beach together, walking in the sand, climbing on rocks, looking at little tide pools with sea anemone, starfish, and little crabs. At one point, maybe a few hundred feet away, we watched a blue heron stalk and catch her lunch. She was huge and her graceful ability to dart her beak into the water and come back up with a fish was beautiful and had all three of us awe-struck.
We didn’t know we were going to stop here and I certainly wasn’t wearing the right shoes for it. I had on a pair of very water unfriendly leather loafers and because of that I was trying to be extra careful not to get them wet with salt water (It was really cold and we were walking on rock with bits of coral barnacle or I would have just taken them off.) After a few hours we decided we should get going and began walking back up the beach. Every step I took my foot would sink in a puddle of soggy sand and after several steps my feet were getting quite wet. My mind thought, “I am going UP the beach, AWAY from the ocean, there won’t be any water this next step.” But sure enough, somehow every step I took landed me in water. I became more and more focused on my feet and where I was going to step next but I didn’t want to stop moving because that would make my feet sink even further into the wet sand. Eventually, I started to try and hop quickly, hoping this next time my feet would find dry land. But still, with every step my foot found water.
Finally, Violet said, “jesse, stop! Just stop and look at the big picture here.” And so, quite frustrated and soggy footed, I stopped and took my focused attention off of my two wet feet and looked all around to see where I was in the scheme of things. Because I had only been focusing on my feet and nothing else I hadn’t noticed that I was walking right up the path of a shallow but wide stream of water that was flowing from the hillside into the ocean. Three or four steps to either side was an entire beach of dry sand. So, now that I had seen the whole beach compared to where I was exactly I hopped three times to the right and that was that. Dryland.


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February 1, 2010 at 1:04 pm
violet
You are usually much better than I am at looking at the big picture, and are so good at reminding me to do so. It was nice to get to remind you for a change! And my little Hawaiian friend- we were walking on barnacles not coral! I love you JJ!
February 1, 2010 at 1:37 pm
jessejames
Violet! I love it when you show up here. Hi.
Also, yes, it was barnacles and not coral, sharp none the less and my freezing cold mind had to go to a warm place for survival purposes, see. In order not to complain about how damn cold I was I thought of somewhere reasonable, like you mentioned, Hawaii. But thank you for the fact check and for the sweet comment. I love how much you knew about what was going on there, naming all that sciency stuff about the critters in the tide pools and such. Very sexy. That was a great day all around.
February 1, 2010 at 3:04 pm
Jesse
Cute story, my friend as always
Isn’t it cold where you live? All I kept thinking was screw wet feet, they must have been icicle feet!
and hello there Miss Violet!!!
February 1, 2010 at 3:24 pm
e
Ha! Always on the lookout for the big picture… and often missing the details (speaking of myself, that is). Hope your shoes survived.
That’s a great photo of the gray on gray landscape and the big black dog. The Seal is very photogenic. Also, your new header is pretty spectacular.
This is like, twice in as many weeks that Violet herself has commented! A new trend?
February 1, 2010 at 6:01 pm
Blazer
Lesson…always carry a pair of walking shoes in the car. Never know when you three will decide to explore.
February 1, 2010 at 6:43 pm
jessejames
Or! Just do whatever Violet says and your feet will stay dry…
February 1, 2010 at 6:57 pm
JMc
I prefer to call things “interesting stories” rather than lessons… requires less introspection.
February 2, 2010 at 7:17 pm
jessejames
Wow! Awesome time saver tip! That little rewording will come in so handy. Thanks.
February 2, 2010 at 3:25 am
kalisisrising
That’s a pretty awesome little tidbit…way to step back and take it all in, for sure! Glad you had fun.
February 2, 2010 at 5:31 am
greg
I love the idea of the bigger picture. We all get caught up in the routine of our daily lives and never see that those simple days end up adding up to years. We are surrounded by it all, not just in the spot we are standing. Every step counts. I’m glad you had Violet there to remind you to look around, we all need that once in a while.
Loving the new header so much!
February 5, 2010 at 6:55 pm
dykeevolution
I have such a similar picture of Gracie… I will post it on my blog this weekend. Spingles.
Bigger picture, indeed.
I love you three. It’s settled.
Oh, and guess who got an email from her new “friend” Jen, of Jen and Sara? And guess what the email was about? Ok. Can’t guess? I’ll tell you. A job in Seattle, doing exactly what I do now. And guess who applied to it? Ha! I am nuts.
If some crazy turn of life brings me to the PNW, I expect my many new bloggers friends to show me some love
February 5, 2010 at 7:04 pm
jessejames
The blogger love is here for you already, and of course we would take you under our pacific northwest lesbian lifestyle wings… that is exciting indeed. Keep me posted, please!